55 Rules For Love – Rule #18 – Don’t Use Comparisons

Photo Credit – Whisper.ch Types of Comparisons Comparisons are sure death to the relationship. There are, in my thoughts, three ways to compare: Comparing your marriage to another couple’s seemingly “perfect” marriage Comparing yourself to your spouse’s past partners Comparing your current partner to a partner of yours in the past My Musings On This……

Today is my 51st Birthday! Reflections of my First Year in the Second Half of my Life – What a Hell of a Ride!

51 It is just a number. To me, 51 represents the distance in this journey of my life. Reflections Emotions are messy. Regulating them is challenging at best. Sitting with uncomfortable emotions without reaction takes practice. Meditation truly gives inner peace, but Rome wasn’t built in a day and the same applies to my meditation…

Personal Development – A Wild Woman Walking the Spiritual Path – A Wild Woman Redefined? Absolutely!

Introduction My struggles with alcohol can be read in these blogs: Mystic Order – Reiki Level IIIA – 21 Day Cleanse – A Miracle Has Happened Spiritual Discipline – My Alcohol Addiction – My Story Now Personal Development – Cutting the Ties That Bind – Saying Goodbye to Alcohol Is Too Much a Choice or…

5 Months & the ABSOLUTE POWER of Self-Talk!

I’ve spent my entire adult life changing. Changing masks. Masks are those invisible people-pleasing behaviours that allowed me to try and always do the right thing to please others.  The masks have the same purpose  – to please/fit in/to be accepted and liked – and what mask I wear changes for the people I’m around so I can…