55 Rules For Love – Rule #16 – Don’t Try To Control

Don’t Try To Control Control = Fear I have spoken many times during this Rules For Love blog series of my fear and it’s roots in PTSD. Fear, if not understood and embraced to heal in a marriage, creates havoc. Trying to control my husband as a result of my fears and inability to trust,…

Huatulco, Mexico – Day 9 – Last Day

Day 9 was bittersweet because this would Michael and I’s last time together until March, over Spring Break. Since November, he’s been on the West Coast of Canada – British Columbia, getting the house ready to sell in the spring. I’m on the East Coast of Canada – Nova Scotia, back to work and where…

Huatulco, Mexico – Day 7 – The Lighthouse Near La Entrega Beach

Drive from Rio Copalita to Santa Cruz Bay Michael and I, following our new Canadian friends Patricia and Joel – P & J, drove from Rio Copalita, or Copalita River to the western most tip of Santa Cruz Bay to see the lighthouse there. There were lots of interesting sights along the way! Signs that…

55 Rules For Love – Rule #15 – Leave Drama Out Of It

Leave Drama Out Of It. Drama = theatrics = making a big deal over nothing = overreacting = being irrational = acting crazy = Me Well, how I used to be. I’ve come a long way from screaming at my husband during a heated, one-sided argument, as he hides in the car with windows rolled…