55 Rules For Love – Rule #18 – Don’t Use Comparisons

Photo Credit – Whisper.ch Types of Comparisons Comparisons are sure death to the relationship. There are, in my thoughts, three ways to compare: Comparing your marriage to another couple’s seemingly “perfect” marriage Comparing yourself to your spouse’s past partners Comparing your current partner to a partner of yours in the past My Musings On This……

55 Rules For Love – Rule #13 – Live In The Moment – Be Present

There are many spiritual leaders and mindfulness teachers who have written a variety of books on the benefits of living life in the present moment. Eckhart Tolle, Deepak Chopra, Wayne Dyer, Jon Kabat-Zinn, Louise Hay to name a few… Living life in the present moment while married, as in all aspects of life, brings so…

55 Rules For Love – Rule #12 – Support Each Other When The Going Gets Tough

Whatever my going is, that is tough for me, may be very different for Michael and vice versa. Recognizing this is a major first step towards supporting each other. The Going is Tough – Isolation Right now my going is tough. Michael and I are spending the winter apart as he is in British Columbia…