55 Rules For Love – Rule #17 – Allow A Small Amount of Jealousy

Allow A Small Amount of Jealousy

I like this rule – because I believe a wee bit of jealousy is healthy in a relationship.

Within the many dynamic fibers woven into the matrix of a marriage, is the expression of making each other feel the ultimate special. You are important to me, I value you and I will show you this, each and every day.

A wee bit of jealousy feels protective of that specialness; I don’t want someone else making my husband feel special.

But it is just a wee bit of jealousy…to let my husband know I am not complacent, I notice him and how very special he is to me.

Vulnerability

Jealousy is a big topic that has many layers, many complexities that would merit a longer, in-depth blog. But, I believe the essence of this rule is not complex. I believe the essence of this rule is vulnerability. My wee bit of jealousy indicates I am vulnerable enough to admit I feel insecure of another woman and don’t want to lose you because you are so special to me.

This rule is lovely because of the vulnerableness about it. We should always value what we hold dear to our hearts.

S, ❤

About me: Stephanie Wells

I’m a Reiki Master Teacher of Usui Shiki Ryoho – the Usui System of Natural Healing. I was attuned in Levels I, II & IIIA in Halifax, Nova Scotia, Canada. During a 6 week stay in Mararikulam North, Kerala, India I was reattuned in Levels I, II, & IIIA as well as acquiring my Level IIIB Master Teacher attunement.

Reiki Picture - 2018 - Doha, Qatar

55 Rules For Love:

55 Rules For Love – Rule #1 – When It Arrives, Cherish It

55 Rules For Love – Rule #2 – Whatever You Accept, You Will Get

55 Rules For Love – Rule # 3 – Understand That Love Is A Mirror – It Will Show Us Who We Are If We Allow It To

55 Rules For Love – Rule #4 – Only We Can Make Ourselves Happy, It Is Not The Other Person’s Responsibility

55 Rules For Love – Rule #5 – Don’t Say Words With The Intent To Hurt

55 Rules For Love – Rule #6 – Accept And Forgive Easily

55 Rules For Love – Rule #7 – Don’t Be Scared To Disagree, It Is Healthy

55 Rules For Love – Rule #8 – Never Be Too Busy For Each Other

55 Rules For Love – Rule #9 – Do Not Punish

55 Rules For Love – Rule #10 – Accept Honest Criticism, It Is Good For Us

55 Rules For Love – Rule #11 – Admit When You Are Wrong, Quickly

55 Rules For Love – Rule #12 – Support Each Other When The Going Gets Tough

55 Rules For Love – Rule #13 – Live In The Moment – Be Present

55 Rules For Love – Rule #14 – Leave The Past Where It Belongs

55 Rules For Love – Rule #15 – Leave Drama Out Of It

55 Rules For Love – Rule #16 – Don’t Try To Control

55 Rules For Love – Rule #17 – Allow A Small Amount of Jealousy

55 Rules For Love – Rule #18 – Don’t Use Comparisons

55 Rules For Love – Rule #19 – Celebrate Differences

55 Rules For Love – Rule #20 – Communicate Openly and Honestly

55 Rules For Love – Rule #21 – Listen Very Carefully

55 Rules For Love – Rule #22 – Don’t Judge

55 Rules For Love – Rule #23 – Don’t Manipulate To Get Results

55 Rules For Love – Rule #24 – Learn and Grow

55 Rules For Love – Rule #25 – Don’t Try To Change Each Other

2 Comments Add yours

  1. Margie says:

    Yes, I agree with you,Stephanie about a wee bit of jealousy being okay!
    Thanks for sharing this!
    ❤ ❤ ❤

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    1. This was a trickier blog to write, to try to explain the simplicity of allowing for just a small amount of jealousy, as I see the vulnerability and loveliness in it. ❤ ❤ ❤

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